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Why people who say they ‘can’t afford it’ are lying

I see quite a lot of attention paid to the problem of the cheap client. The bargain hunters who want to talk you down to the point where you’re paying them to take their pictures. But the more I’ve dealt with people, the more I realize that this isn’t a problem of demographics (some of my wealthiest clients have also been the cheapest) but of value. It isn’t ‘cheapies’ who are the problem. It’s folks who don’t value photography in the first place.

When I first started, I used to cower at phone calls or emails claiming that my clients “didn’t have any money” or “couldn’t afford” their prints. I’d discount, slash prices, give them my first born child. But then I’d see their activity on Facebook or hear through the grapevine: holidays, new cars, “spent the whole day shopping”, out drinking every weekend. And I realized that these people aren’t flat broke. They just don’t value my product. And it’s totally their prerogative what they spend their money on, but this is the point at which I stopped responding to the “I don’t have any money” emails. Because slashing my prices wasn’t doing them a favor or giving them a leg-up in life – I was just devaluing myself. I was agreeing with them that my work wasn’t worth paying for and that did far more damage to my heart than I’d anticipated. Damage which stuck around long after the pennies they’d given me had evaporated.

See, even the poorest people spend money on the things they value. Some people value McDonald’s. Some people value DVDs. Some people value a holiday twice a year. Or a TV the size of a bus. And trust me, I know from experience that when you really want something, it ain’t hard to get your hands on the cash. Some of my best clients have been normal people just like me who had to take advantage of my payment scheme but really truly valued my work & my product. They didn’t haggle, they didn’t brow-beat me. They placed their order and budgeted the cost into their finances. And they actually display their photos, too.

…which leads me onto my next point. Most clients who beat my prices down to pennies (or even free) have never displayed their images in their home. Some never even placed an order for one single photo after getting a heckuva deal on the session. Because they didn’t value photography in the first place and by deeply discounting, I was agreeing and telling them “you’re right – it’s worthless”. If a client truly has budget issues and they need a little help, you can kindly work out a payment plan but whatever you do, don’t slash your prices. Don’t respond to people who want to ‘do a deal’ because the only person you’re letting down is yourself.

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  • Barry Dawson

    I learnt 2 things long ago, 

    1 You cannot have a business without profit.
    2 In a price war nobody wins.

    What you say is absolutely true, at the end of the day there are people that will take no value what so ever to a product or service no matter what industry so investing so much time and effort in to them at a loss to yourself is an insane business model, and to quickly refer to point 1 its as simple as putting in double the work for half the pay and no body in any job would volunteer to do 80 hours work for 20 hours pay.

    When it comes to pricing wars to which I refer that you think either have to either match the lowest denominator or undercut the competition as a way of making money.
    And its a flawed foundations for a business thinking, there are many problems involved with it including work/life balances but the 2 biggest problems are that you are not focusing on your own business costs and that in a pricing war there is no bottom limit except bankruptcy for all party’s involved bar the one that by some short mirical may be able to hold out the longest and even that is not guaranteed, in fact its very unlikely to work.

    I also was once at a point where I believed people and cut my own throat for them, its even been the biggest cause of lost sleep, tension, head aches AND it takes a hefty toll on your family life causing many arguments.

    Now through persistence and gritted teeth I am in a position where I too believe in what I am supplying and nothing beats confidently stating your prices and even turning down work where you quickly realise they are going to be an arsole.

    I still get people who drop through the moron net but a quick pre written letter from the solicitor threatening court if they don’t cough for services tendered usually solves the problem.

    Thanks for your post, I will take time to pass it around many people as I have done before.

  • Anonymous

    Well holy smokes, Barry – that’s one awesome response to this post! Thank you so much :)

  • http://www.facebook.com/amber.carl Amber Carl

    I agree 100% and needed to hear something like this for it to hit home.  Thank you for posting!  I’ve done this far too often and in 2012, I refuse to do it anymore.  Thank you!

  • http://www.alleywayphotography.com/ Lori Alley

    Thank you Elizabeth (& Barry lol) – great reminder for all of us!!!!  I live in a very small town, but only 30 mins or so from Portland, OR.  My prices are high compared to other photographers in my immediate area and I have been wrestling with whether or not to raise them again this year in July.  (The last price increase was in Jan of 2010.)  I understand the concept that people subconsciously place more value on things that are more expensive, but I obviously need to figure out a better marketing strategy to get the phone to ring more often.  My hubby just got laid off right during what is turning out to be a slow time, so I need to ramp up my game!  I’d love input on my pricing if any of you have a moment.  My newest work is on my blog and FB (in the process of updating the images on my website), and my prices are in a downloadable pdf under the “details” page on my website.  http://www.alleywayphotography.com  or  http://www.facebook.com/AlleywayPhoto  

  • Lori Alley

    And thanks again for the great article.  I’m going to save this one to reread when I start questioning myself!  :-)

  • http://michelleguzman.com/blog/ Michelle Guzman

    I sssooo agree here!!!!!!!!  :)

  • TB

    I’ve spent all day down and out because I’ve increased my prices recently and I haven’t had a single inquiry. I’m in a tough market and working for less than I’m worth has taken the joy out of photography for me. This post just made me believe in the change I made all over again. THANK YOU!

  • Charles Wheeler

    But you sell your images on a flash card????  You are not practicing what you preach.

  • Charles Wheeler

    Have the guts to then ask them “if you so surprised, then why did you choose us?”  Maybe you are not charging enough.  They don’t expect much because you are under price?

  • Anonymous

    Hi Charles! I didn’t mention that at all in this post. But you can read more about what I ‘preach’ on that topic here: http://www.elizabethhalford.com/2011/03/21/to-sell-a-disk-to-not-sell-a-disk-that-is-the-question/

  • Inlovewithborabora

    Amen.  Nuff said.

  • Melanie

    100% True, love it!  Thanks for posting this, just reinforced this philosophy even more.

  • http://www.facebook.com/Closetohomephotography Jennifer Lucia

    Great article. Even when my prices were really low when I first started my business I still had people try to haggle me down for pennies. It doesn’t matter what price point you are at. I’ve seen friends try to get into photography by starting off with free sessions and STILL have issues with clients wanting more. They’ll ask for an extra 8×10 or 5×7 and expect it for free because the session was free. People always want something for nothing. This is why I’ve decided to just stick with my prices and not back down. I’m making an extra effort to show potential clients why I deserve to be paid what I’m asking, and if they don’t agree they can go to the new photographer down the street charging less.

  • thru viewfinder

    Amen!
    I love this and I agreed. I have this kind of experiences. They said they don’t have budget, bla..bla..then I saw on facebook, they
    re on vacation overseas, buying expensive things, etc..it’s just really sad that they don’t appreciate our work.
    Starting last week, I made a decision, that I’m not giving a freebie anymore. no more free stuff. thanks for this post, so encouraging.

  • Christina Dooley Photography

    My absolute best client are those who value photography, some have money and many do not, so needed this reminder tho thank you for posting!  

  • Rachel

    So… I am relatively new, and this post read awhile back has taught me a lot.  Now I’ve set my prices and people are asking for less, and I’m in sales in my day job, and yet still don’t know how to politely and professionaly respond to people when they say, can you give me a session for such and such, or our wedding budget is only such and such… What do you say?

  • elizabethhalford

    Hello Rachel! You don’t have to be nasty, but I don’t think you have to be especially painstakingly polite when you say no. I mean…thy should maybe be embarrassed for devaluing you in the first place. Just say “no”. Not too hard one you get started :) Try this post on for size: http://www.elizabethhalford.com/the-business-of-photography/6-scenarios-where-you-may-want-to-say-no-and-how-to-do-it/

  • Misti

    Bravo!

  • Katarina

    Thank you.  

  • Belinda

    Elizabeth, This post was very encouraging for me. Starting my photography business has been a long road and many hard learned lessons like this one. I only wish I had realized the wisdom in this sooner. I love reading your posts, they always have such valuable info, even long after you posted them!

  • David Roberts

    I got into photography because the photographer we were going to kept raising her prices. I don’t disagree with what you’re saying. People do value things more when they pay for services. But you also have to realize that there are honest middle class, one income families, who maybe just had a baby and can’t afford to drop $350 or $400.00 on a disc with digital images. Maybe one time, but in my case at 6 months photos, and again at a year was just to much money.

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